June 30, 2009

He's Still Alive!!

I made the hardest mommy decision yesterday. After running into a friend who just had a baby, I about died when they said their son was 2 weeks and sleeping 6 hours a night. SERIOUSLY! It was time to do something about Brayden's "every 3 hour" feedings at night. So.......
Mommy decided it was the night he needed to cry it out. It was an awful experience for me, but I know in the long run it's better for parents and baby. He went one 5 1/2 hour series before feeding, then a 4 hour series before it was time to get up and start the day. Having just 1 feeding a night is NOT something we are used to.

And this morning...Brayden and mommy are both still alive! He didn't cry himself to death like I feared! He is laying on his playmat as we speak just cooing at everything, so I know he is okay! What's funny about it all is that I think it is much harder for me to get used to this schedule than Brayden. He is only crying because that is what I trained him to do. Notice all the "I's" in this post! I know, I know, I did it. I made him not sleep through the night yet. But come on, I'm a new mom and just learning as I go. I don't think I have damaged him for life by feeding him more at night than I should!

I have read that it takes 3 nights of crying before they get used to a new schedule, so only 2 more to go!!! We will see!

3 comments:

Heather and Travis said...

Glad that the night worked for you guys!

Morgan Kate is ten months old and still wakes up some nights for a bottle. All babies are different and some are just have a larger appetite.

Don't doubt yourself! You are a great mommy!

Hollie Heming said...

He'll survive and so will you :). Don't stress. It'll happen (eventually). ha!

Anonymous said...

I will have to remember this in a few weeks. Glad you and Brayden are both getting a little more sleep :)

Love,
Jessa